Ok I am the guest here so I promise to be on my best behavior guys.
I just wanted to add in one thought that I havn't seen said in response to the talk about teams leaving the Big 12 because of big bad Texas.
When an Institution has decided that it is time to pick up roots and leave traditions behind that is a very tough thing to try and tell the alumni and fans about. I imagine it would be a very stressful position to be in. What makes that position easier is if you can point to a scape goat.
Now I would never go so far as to say Texas isn't a pain in the ass to deal with. Obviously they can be.
Colorado has a better pipeline to the West these days. Doesn't seem they can pull from Texas anymore. Colorado folks generally fit in better culturally with those to the West. Colorado moved to the PAC because it is the best fit for them. They now have yearly big games in California, that is huge for them. I don't even think the Buffs are pointing a finger at Texas, they just jumped at their dream position.
Nebraska most definitely was annoyed with Texas for basically taking the life out of the OU/NU match up in the eyes of OU fans. At this point much of the tradition that held Nebraska to the Big 12 just wasn't there anymore. They knew Missouri would jump immediately to any invite given to them by the Big Ten so they worked to get that position instead. The Big Ten is about big names and Nebraska is a bigger name in football, they got the spot. It was a money move and once again another cultural move. Dropping Texas in the equation is once again just the blame game to cover ass with Nebraska boosters and alumni who may not have wanted to leave.
Missouri has been trying to get out for awhile. They have been wanting to be in the Big Ten. When you know one of your conference mates wants to leave how are you going to feel towards them? It is not really a recipe for good relations between Missouri and the southern programs. They were destined to leave the moment they started looking to leave. Nebraska beat them out for the spot they really coveted. I bet behind closed doors Missouri is more angry at the Cornhuskers than they are the Bevo's.
As far as Texas A&M goes. I think enough has been said about them wanting to be in the SEC. Were there issues between them and the Longhorns? I would be an equivalent poster of WoadBlue if I said there werent serious issues. That is an internal issue within the state of Texas, I do not see how that is something FSU and Clemson should be taking to heart. The hatred I see towards UNC is pretty close if not equal to the hatred aggies espouse towards the horns and that is not even in state hatred.
What FSU and Clemson would have to do if they want to join the Big 12 is to get as much as they want as possible in those negotiations. Bring friends and have a voting bloc early on in the Big 12. It will become a much more polar Big 12 that way.
That turned out to be longer than I had intended. Not tryin to stir trouble, just feel there are other reasons for those moves besides an entirely emotional move based on Horn Hate.