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RE: WKU commit arrested for relationship with 13-year old girl
I actually saw a news article about a study that found high school kids having sex less and becoming older before first experience.
It might have more to do with video games and the virtual world that kids live in these days.
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(01-13-2018 09:55 AM)Jack Bauer Wrote:  
(01-12-2018 09:54 PM)Eagle9 Wrote:  I just think the kid shouldn’t have his life ruined over this. It’s not a good situation. It shouldn’t happen. But I’m around 19 year old senior boys and 13 year old girls every day. And in many cases those 19 year old boys are just as ill prepared to make a good decision as the 13 year old girls are. Just my opinion, but 19 or not, they’re all kids in their thinking if they’re still in high school.

I don’t want to be labeled as the butthole that thinks it’s okay, but I don’t think it’s okay. No 13 year old needs to be sexually active no matter how old the partner is. However, in the world we live in today, it goes on a lot. There’s a lot worse things he could have done.

Just because they did it doesn’t mean it was right. If it was my daughter the boy wouldn’t be around to do it anymore... maybe I’m just a protective dad but it wouldn’t happen.

In this case the time to get protective was before it happened. I'm in no way talking about you when I say this.....

some parents let their little girls dress way older than they are. Some parents let's the 13,14,15 year old cake on makeup so they will look older. Those girls are not dressing that way for their girlfriends. They are not caking on the makeup to look older for their girlfriends. Maybe parents should know where their 13,14,15 year old kids are at and hanging out with.

True story....

A few years ago my wife and I was at the Mall dropping off my 17 year old who's car was in the shop. He passes 2 girls that to me looked 16 or so and one said to the other. "I would blow him, the other said she would F him" . I asked my wife if she heard that, she said yes and then told me those two girls were 13 and 14.5 years old. My wife knew the family and went and told the mother what was said....

"neither of my girls would say something like that" and those girls continue to dress the same and cake on makeup.

The time to protect is long before that point because a father is only going to get the chance to shoot the first one that had sex with his young daughter.
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(01-13-2018 10:16 AM)Dawgxas Wrote:  Two wrongs don't make a right.

It is wrong but at some of these smaller schools where the junior high is mixed in with the high school, I could see this happening.

Years ago 50+ this was fairly common. I actually know a situation similar years ago, he might have been 20 and she was 14. The parents knew they were dating and approved. They are still together married with 3 or 4 kids

One set of my grandparents had an 11 year age difference when they got married, he was 25 and she was 14. But this again was in the 1940s where it was common for girls as young as 12-13 to be married off.

With that said this is a completely different time, standards and expectations. I'm now 46 and was in middle school in the mid 80s and this was going on then too, not so prevalent then but it still went on. Myself I was taught to treat girls right and always thought it was just wrong to do something like that.
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(01-13-2018 10:30 AM)Dawgxas Wrote:  I actually saw a news article about a study that found high school kids having sex less and becoming older before first experience.
It might have more to do with video games and the virtual world that kids live in these days.

Every generation likes to think they were more wholesome than "kids these days".

Teens have always had sex and always will.
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(01-13-2018 10:50 AM)WKUYG Wrote:  
(01-13-2018 09:55 AM)Jack Bauer Wrote:  
(01-12-2018 09:54 PM)Eagle9 Wrote:  I just think the kid shouldn’t have his life ruined over this. It’s not a good situation. It shouldn’t happen. But I’m around 19 year old senior boys and 13 year old girls every day. And in many cases those 19 year old boys are just as ill prepared to make a good decision as the 13 year old girls are. Just my opinion, but 19 or not, they’re all kids in their thinking if they’re still in high school.

I don’t want to be labeled as the butthole that thinks it’s okay, but I don’t think it’s okay. No 13 year old needs to be sexually active no matter how old the partner is. However, in the world we live in today, it goes on a lot. There’s a lot worse things he could have done.

Just because they did it doesn’t mean it was right. If it was my daughter the boy wouldn’t be around to do it anymore... maybe I’m just a protective dad but it wouldn’t happen.

In this case the time to get protective was before it happened. I'm in no way talking about you when I say this.....

some parents let their little girls dress way older than they are. Some parents let's the 13,14,15 year old cake on makeup so they will look older. Those girls are not dressing that way for their girlfriends. They are not caking on the makeup to look older for their girlfriends. Maybe parents should know where their 13,14,15 year old kids are at and hanging out with.

True story....

A few years ago my wife and I was at the Mall dropping off my 17 year old who's car was in the shop. He passes 2 girls that to me looked 16 or so and one said to the other. "I would blow him, the other said she would F him" . I asked my wife if she heard that, she said yes and then told me those two girls were 13 and 14.5 years old. My wife knew the family and went and told the mother what was said....

"neither of my girls would say something like that" and those girls continue to dress the same and cake on makeup.

The time to protect is long before that point because a father is only going to get the chance to shoot the first one that had sex with his young daughter.

So true. It's why I don't put all the blame on the boy. My wife and myself talk about this all the time when our kids grow up and how we want to raise them. Great post yg
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I don’t know what went on in this particular situation, maybe he’s a thug that needs to go to jail, maybe he’s just a kid that made a bad choice. Each case is different. That was kind of my point. Every kid is different. I know nothing about these 2 kids specifically. I just wanted people to think after reading this before doing the popular thing, which is to label him a thug and piece of crap preying on a young girl. That could be the case, or it may not.

I actually teach 7th and 8th grade girls. As much as you and their parents want to think of them as sweet little innocent girls playing with barbies, a lot of them aren’t. In the last 2 years I’ve had to break up 4 fights between jr high girls. They were pulling hair and throwing punches. Screaming expletive filled insults at each other. I caught 1 after she had stolen a couple hundred dollars of cash. It’s impossible not to hear them talk about boys and sex. Many of them are actively trying to find a boy to have sex with. And 90% of the time they are looking for older boys ?

Now, I’m not saying ALL 12-14 year old girls are like this. That would be a lie. There are a lot that are still in a kid stage, and pretty innocent, probably even the majority. But a lot (I’d say 30 or 40 percent) want to have sex and are trying to do it, mostly with older boys.

I admit, 19 and 13 is too big of an age gap. But a gap like 17 and 13 happens all the time. Believe me. I don’t agree with either one. But is there really that much difference between 17 and 19.
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This kid's life will not be ruined at all! He can become a pastor and get standing ovations or even run for Senate. The south is a place for 2nd chances for child molesters. As long as you tell everyone how religious you are you can do whatever the hell you want!
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(01-13-2018 02:43 PM)Eagle9 Wrote:  I don’t know what went on in this particular situation, maybe he’s a thug that needs to go to jail, maybe he’s just a kid that made a bad choice. Each case is different. That was kind of my point. Every kid is different. I know nothing about these 2 kids specifically. I just wanted people to think after reading this before doing the popular thing, which is to label him a thug and piece of crap preying on a young girl. That could be the case, or it may not.

I actually teach 7th and 8th grade girls. As much as you and their parents want to think of them as sweet little innocent girls playing with barbies, a lot of them aren’t. In the last 2 years I’ve had to break up 4 fights between jr high girls. They were pulling hair and throwing punches. Screaming expletive filled insults at each other. I caught 1 after she had stolen a couple hundred dollars of cash. It’s impossible not to hear them talk about boys and sex. Many of them are actively trying to find a boy to have sex with. And 90% of the time they are looking for older boys ?

Now, I’m not saying ALL 12-14 year old girls are like this. That would be a lie. There are a lot that are still in a kid stage, and pretty innocent, probably even the majority. But a lot (I’d say 30 or 40 percent) want to have sex and are trying to do it, mostly with older boys.

I admit, 19 and 13 is too big of an age gap. But a gap like 17 and 13 happens all the time. Believe me. I don’t agree with either one. But is there really that much difference between 17 and 19.

between 17 and 19 not that much. between 19 and 13 is huge. blame the girls all you want but a 19year old who knowingly has sex with a 13 yr old needs to be locked up. but hey you teach 12 year olds so that makes it ok.
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(01-13-2018 05:50 PM)bladhmadh Wrote:  
(01-13-2018 02:43 PM)Eagle9 Wrote:  I don’t know what went on in this particular situation, maybe he’s a thug that needs to go to jail, maybe he’s just a kid that made a bad choice. Each case is different. That was kind of my point. Every kid is different. I know nothing about these 2 kids specifically. I just wanted people to think after reading this before doing the popular thing, which is to label him a thug and piece of crap preying on a young girl. That could be the case, or it may not.

I actually teach 7th and 8th grade girls. As much as you and their parents want to think of them as sweet little innocent girls playing with barbies, a lot of them aren’t. In the last 2 years I’ve had to break up 4 fights between jr high girls. They were pulling hair and throwing punches. Screaming expletive filled insults at each other. I caught 1 after she had stolen a couple hundred dollars of cash. It’s impossible not to hear them talk about boys and sex. Many of them are actively trying to find a boy to have sex with. And 90% of the time they are looking for older boys ?

Now, I’m not saying ALL 12-14 year old girls are like this. That would be a lie. There are a lot that are still in a kid stage, and pretty innocent, probably even the majority. But a lot (I’d say 30 or 40 percent) want to have sex and are trying to do it, mostly with older boys.

I admit, 19 and 13 is too big of an age gap. But a gap like 17 and 13 happens all the time. Believe me. I don’t agree with either one. But is there really that much difference between 17 and 19.

between 17 and 19 not that much. between 19 and 13 is huge. blame the girls all you want but a 19year old who knowingly has sex with a 13 yr old needs to be locked up. but hey you teach 12 year olds so that makes it ok.

Only a idiot would think that's what he said or meant.

I might be wrong on this but I think he's saying not everyone matures the same at the same age. Not that it's OK. To be honest I doubt if this is the last time this 13 year old has sex before she reaches the age of consent.
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This is why I hesitated before ever posting in this thread. I knew some genius would put words in my mouth to show how great of a guy he is. I never said it was ok, I specifically and repeatedly said it was not ok. I also never blamed the girl. But if that’s what you got out of my post then so be it. I know what I said and what I meant.



I’m around 19 year old kids. A lot of them come from nothing and have no clue how to properly conduct themselves around girls. They’ve grown up in bad atmospheres and that’s all they know. A lot of times they have no self confidence. Maybe they’ve never been shown much attention by a female or didn’t have the confidence to approach a girl. Maybe a girl shows him some attention for the first time and happens to be way younger than him ? Maybe it feels really good to finally have a girl show them attention and makes it hard for them to think rationally ?

I have no idea what happened here. Maybe he’s a terrible person that needs to suffer. Maybe he’s a decent kid that made an immature mistake. My whole point was that maybe everyone shouldn’t be so quick to dismiss him as a bad guy. We’ve all made terrible decisions as 19 year olds. Maybe not what he did, but most of us have done some stupid crap that could have turned out badly. So why is his sin so much worse than ours ? With that being said, I’m done on this topic.
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There are enough comments on this thread to resurrect To Catch a Predator for several new seasons.

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Maybe he will plead insanity He was crazy about that young stuff


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(01-13-2018 10:29 AM)Jack Bauer Wrote:  
(01-13-2018 10:16 AM)Dawgxas Wrote:  
(01-13-2018 09:55 AM)Jack Bauer Wrote:  
(01-12-2018 09:54 PM)Eagle9 Wrote:  I just think the kid shouldn’t have his life ruined over this. It’s not a good situation. It shouldn’t happen. But I’m around 19 year old senior boys and 13 year old girls every day. And in many cases those 19 year old boys are just as ill prepared to make a good decision as the 13 year old girls are. Just my opinion, but 19 or not, they’re all kids in their thinking if they’re still in high school.

I don’t want to be labeled as the butthole that thinks it’s okay, but I don’t think it’s okay. No 13 year old needs to be sexually active no matter how old the partner is. However, in the world we live in today, it goes on a lot. There’s a lot worse things he could have done.

Just because they did it doesn’t mean it was right. If it was my daughter the boy wouldn’t be around to do it anymore... maybe I’m just a protective dad but it wouldn’t happen.

Two wrongs don't make a right.

It is wrong but at some of these smaller schools where the junior high is mixed in with the high school, I could see this happening.

Years ago 50+ this was fairly common. I actually know a situation similar years ago, he might have been 20 and she was 14. The parents knew they were dating and approved. They are still together married with 3 or 4 kids

50 years ago people were getting married at 17/18. Now a days the maturity gap is so large it's just unacceptable. A girl might try and act like she is older but it's still a huge gap. I'm not blaming just the guy but he is 6 years older and should know better.

+1. Very true.
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